{"id":2062,"date":"2012-05-04T19:37:40","date_gmt":"2012-05-05T02:37:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/?p=2062"},"modified":"2013-01-03T22:29:07","modified_gmt":"2013-01-04T05:29:07","slug":"friday-evening","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/2012\/05\/friday-evening\/","title":{"rendered":"Friday Evening"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2149\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/2012\/05\/friday-evening\/2012-mx-05-04pm1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg?fit=1221%2C1839&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1221,1839\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;2.4&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;iPhone 4S&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1336316911&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;4.28&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;64&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.00056085249579361&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"2012-MX-05-04pm1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg?fit=199%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg?fit=525%2C792&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg?resize=525%2C791\" alt=\"\" title=\"2012-MX-05-04pm1\" width=\"525\" height=\"791\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2149\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg?w=1221&amp;ssl=1 1221w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg?resize=199%2C300&amp;ssl=1 199w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg?resize=679%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 679w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/2012-MX-05-04pm1.jpg?w=1050 1050w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 767px) 89vw, (max-width: 1000px) 54vw, (max-width: 1071px) 543px, 580px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Surf: I honestly can&#8217;t recall what the surf was like this evening. I suppose that&#8217;s what I get for waiting two months to update my little surf journal. I&#8217;m sure it was lovely.<\/p>\n<p>This seems like a good time to talk about patience and progress.<\/p>\n<p>I will admit that I&#8217;m not always patient. Sometimes I make the 10 minute pasta dish instead of the 50 minute rice dish. Sometimes I take a challenge head on, in such a rush to &#8220;get it right&#8221; or to see results that I don&#8217;t always take the time to really see what it is I am learning to do. <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been fairly patient with surfing, for the most part. I&#8217;ve tried to approach surfing from the perspective that this is something FUN I do, not something I need to be the best at. About two years into learning to surf, I got a little impatient. I had a little bit of mild success with longboarding. It wasn&#8217;t huge, but it was just enough to make me think &#8220;yeah, I got this&#8221; and become impatient to move to a shorter board. I struggled quite a bit stepping down. My longboarding skills were too green to smoothly translate to a shorter board. Rather than persistently throw myself at the problem and get frustrated, I put aside the idea of shortboarding to focus on improving my longboarding skills in the hopes that with enough time and practice, I&#8217;d be able to take on shortboarding again with more success.<\/p>\n<p>When I spotted my 7&#8217;0 on craigslist a year and a half later, I thought it&#8217;s wide shape and longboard-like outline might be a little easier to catch waves than the other more traditional shortboards I had tried to ride. Remembering the frustration and difficulty I&#8217;d had earlier, I approached this board with patience and low expectations. I was pleasantly surprised to find I did not struggle as much as I had on my previous attempts. I still struggled then, and I still struggle now, but I&#8217;ve paced myself. I&#8217;ve learned to give credit to all of the skills I&#8217;d built up in that year and a half. Instead of focusing on what I &#8220;can&#8217;t&#8221; do right now, I&#8217;ve been focusing on how much more I can do than I could before.<\/p>\n<p>When I decided to go back to Mexico, I knew I wanted to take a board. The waves last year were so forgiving and I learned so much through being able to surf every day. I knew this would be a great opportunity to really learn a shorter board away from the Linda Mar crowds. I&#8217;d also never traveled with a board before so this trip offered an additional opportunity to learn something new. <\/p>\n<p>While I&#8217;ve missed my share of waves on this trip, I have also learned so much. I&#8217;ve learned plenty about where to position myself to the peak on a shorter board, how to catch waves, and how to turn. I&#8217;ve gained a great deal of confidence on this smaller board that will help keep me motivated as I continue to learn on it. The most important lesson I think I&#8217;ve learned is that sometimes it&#8217;s okay to step away from a challenge for the time being. It&#8217;s not giving up to say &#8220;I&#8217;ll try again when I am ready&#8221; any more than it is progress is relentlessly throw yourself against a challenge hoping it will budge. Determination and patience both have their place and both can lead to progress.<\/p>\n<p>I still have plenty to learn (I feel like I have noooooo style), but I&#8217;m looking forward to learning it.<\/p>\n<p>I spent the evening drawing a hermit crab I found sitting by my beach chair at sunset. Drawing is another area where I&#8217;ve learned I can set something aside and return to it when I&#8217;m ready. So far, so good. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/HermitCrabSketch.png\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"2156\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/2012\/05\/friday-evening\/hermitcrabsketch\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/HermitCrabSketch.png?fit=600%2C800&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"600,800\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"HermitCrabSketch\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/HermitCrabSketch.png?fit=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/HermitCrabSketch.png?fit=525%2C700&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/HermitCrabSketch.png?resize=525%2C700\" alt=\"\" title=\"HermitCrabSketch\" width=\"525\" height=\"700\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2156\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/HermitCrabSketch.png?w=600&amp;ssl=1 600w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/HermitCrabSketch.png?resize=225%2C300&amp;ssl=1 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 525px) 100vw, 525px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Surf: I honestly can&#8217;t recall what the surf was like this evening. I suppose that&#8217;s what I get for waiting two months to update my little surf journal. I&#8217;m sure it was lovely. This seems like a good time to talk about patience and progress. I will admit that I&#8217;m not always patient. Sometimes I &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/2012\/05\/friday-evening\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Friday Evening&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[4],"tags":[65,68,64,69,45],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6YKrJ-xg","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2062"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2062"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2062\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2539,"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2062\/revisions\/2539"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2062"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2062"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.traceythompson.com\/surfing\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2062"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}